Mistress Xela

*Role play and erotic dominance with a personal touch*

I am the Governess Xela Xaste, I am an experienced professional and lifestyle Domme in my late 30’s. I’m 5’10” in my bare feet so 6’3” in my heels, all ready to tower over your slave-like shoulders. I have a 50’s hourglass figure, fair freckly skin and red/blond hair depending on the week… 😉 I’m also completely unshaven.

There is nothing I like more then taking a fresh new page that is your mind, body and soul and stamping my mark on it, preferably with my 5 inch thigh high boots. Using and abusing you for my pleasure is my speciality, no cruelty too cold, no fantasy too frightening.

Give me your deepest darkest desires and I will run all over you with them. This I can do in 121 sessions in the chambers at London Training Academy which offer a dungeon, a school room and a bedroom with full TV wardrobe for all those cute little sissies amongst you.

I also offer 221 sessions with my fellow Dommes here and am resident Domme at the FemDom and spanking switch parties I help run with 2 Kings – Spanking Parties in London.

I am available for anything from an hour’s duration through to a full afternoon, evening, or an over night session. I am totally discreet. I am available every day but prefer advance bookings.

Should you require a last minute appointment please allow at least 2 hours notice. I don’t take bookings from withheld numbers. If you don’t get through to me straight away please leave a message and I will contact you when I am available to talk.

Safe words will be used and respected at all times!


Mistress Xela offers training in a huge variety of roleplay scenarios so please always ask. Some of her favourites include:

    head girl/bully/ teacher/head mistress
  • THE EVIL DUCHESS RAVEN in her Tower of Torture
  • SISTER of the hospital ward


To contact Mistress Xela visit Her website, email at xelaxaste@yahoo.co.uk or call +44 (0)7751 447 548

If you cannot meet Mistress Xela in person you can try a telephone or webcam experience:

Mistress Xela offer telephone sessions via:
Fone-Me (MistressXela)

And webcam and telephone sessions via:
AdultWork (theunshavensexdom)